Docker "vlan on bridge...permission denied" / "/proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode"

I have a docker swarm, currently consisting of two nodes. It uses no special settings except for 192.168.0.0/16 address space since I use 10.0.0.0 in my home network.

The swarm runs fine, but every few hours a node freezes (I can ping it, but no SSH or anything else). I found the following errors in the log files:

Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.413073908+01:00" level=info msg="Node 0976f5ad5134/10.0.1.0, joined gossip cluster"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.413134038+01:00" level=info msg="Node 0976f5ad5134/10.0.1.0, added to nodes list"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479811612+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479892612+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479907649+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479921612+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479934778+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.479947501+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.480917408+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.480955649+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.480972038+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.480987223+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.480999741+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.481017834+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.508647853+01:00" level=info msg="API listen on /var/run/docker.sock"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.508793371+01:00" level=info msg="API listen on [::]:2375"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 systemd[1]: Started docker.service - Docker Application Container Engine.
░░ Subject: A start job for unit docker.service has finished successfully
░░ Defined-By: systemd
░░ Support: https://www.debian.org/support
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░░ A start job for unit docker.service has finished successfully.
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░░ The job identifier is 119.
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.561703945+01:00" level=info msg="initialized VXLAN UDP port to 4789 " module=node node.id=sz730ux3bc1nrfsbrf4msy6cw
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.607927556+01:00" level=error msg="set bridge default vlan failed" error="failed to enable default vlan on bridge br0: open /sys/class/net/br0/bridge/default_pvid: permission denied"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.731934501+01:00" level=info msg="initialized VXLAN UDP port to 4789 " module=node node.id=sz730ux3bc1nrfsbrf4msy6cw
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986662686+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986766371+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986786574+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986814908+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986829315+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:49 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:49.986843241+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.139640426+01:00" level=error msg="set bridge default vlan failed" error="failed to enable default vlan on bridge br0: open /sys/class/net/br0/bridge/default_pvid: permission denied"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.298607019+01:00" level=info msg="Node f65fbe5e16eb/10.0.1.1, joined gossip cluster"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.298653426+01:00" level=info msg="Node f65fbe5e16eb/10.0.1.1, added to nodes list"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432251815+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432347963+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432370019+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432583371+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432620093+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432638778+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432707889+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432763445+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432779371+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432802296+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_nodest_conn" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_nodest_conn: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432816648+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.expire_quiescent_template" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/expire_quiescent_template: no such file or directory"
Sep 25 20:58:50 swarm1 dockerd[862]: time="2024-09-25T20:58:50.432830148+01:00" level=error msg="error reading the kernel parameter net.ipv4.vs.conn_reuse_mode" error="open /proc/sys/net/ipv4/vs/conn_reuse_mode: no such file or directory"

Can anybody tell me what those errors mean? They seem to be ip related, but I changed the address space which my docker networks are all abiding by

What OS are you using, how did you install Docker?

It is running on Raspbian, installed with the docker install script.
I had the same issue happen on debian. (All on Pi 5s)

Which install script, using root or root-less?

https://get.docker.com as root

As additional Info: it seems like when this happens, my containers on the node cleanly shutdown

But what surprises me is that they dont get restarted on the other nodes